Couples’ cash secrets endangering their financial future

13th December 2013


Couples are putting their financial future in serious danger as more than one in five people in a relationship are hiding almost £8,000 of debt from their spouse according to new research.

The survey from insurer Prudential found that in addition to debt, many are keeping savings accounts, investments and even income a secret from their other half.

The research looking at attitudes to money and retirement planning among couples aged over 40 found that more than one in five, at 22%, of people in a relationship put the couple’s comfortable retirement at risk by keeping debts, worth an average of £7,800, concealed from their other halves.

When asked how these hidden debts arose, just under half, at 48% of respondents said that they had borrowed to cover every day living costs, while a third, at 34% ran up debts through overspending due to an emotional event such as the break up of a previous relationship. A further 16% had borrowed money to make payments to an ex-partner, for example for child support.

Additionally, 26% of respondents admitted to keeping a stash of money secret from their partner, with an average secret savings pot of £4,000. A fifth, at 20% say their secret stash is to pay for something specific in the future such as a car or a dream holiday, while 22% are keeping their money hidden to help fund their retirement.

And it’s not just savings and debts that couples hide from each other – 13% have never told their partner what they earn while 10% claim their partner has a false impression of their earnings, evenly split between overestimating and underestimating. Some 38% of those who do not tell the whole truth about their income say their basic salary is higher than their partner thinks it is, while 31% have received at least one bonus payment that they kept quiet from their partner. A further 31% do not disclose additional income earned through overtime or ‘cash in hand’ work.

The reasons given for not coming clean on finances with partners vary. For just over half, at 51% the main motive for keeping the extra income separate is to maintain independence – however a generous 29% do so to buy gifts for their other half. More than a fifth, at 22% of the secret savers say they do not trust their partners’ financial decision making, while 16% keep secret funds to protect themselves financially in case of a future split.

Vince Smith-Hughes, retirement expert at Prudential, says: “Many people may have perfectly valid reasons for keeping a stash of savings or personal debts secret from their other halves. However, these financial secrets could pose a serious risk to a couple’s future retirement income.

“For example, if a couple reach retirement with savings that are secret from one another they may have missed out on years of tax relief that they would have been entitled to if the money had been invested in a pension. Meanwhile, making repayments in retirement on an unexpected debt will have an obviously negative impact on a couple’s income.”

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